One of the things that was and is important and influenced my move up here is my Father’s estate. It’s important to me that my Dad’s last wishes be fulfilled, the way that he wanted them. My Dad had talked to a lot of people about his wishes, and I feel that they are pretty well-known. But no matter, someone always has to feel differently in these matters.
Dad didn’t have much, but what he did have was his life’s work: his cabin and his garden. He poured his blood, sweat and tears into building his place. These two things were so important to him. He wanted them cared for, lived in, loved the same way that he did. I get that.
Dad’s way of life doesn’t appeal to many people. The isolation, the remoteness, the rugged outdoors, it’s all foreign to most, and difficult to obtain for those who do desire it. In a way Dad lived a dream that many people will only ever dream about and never realize. With each trip out there I find myself more and more drawn to the quiet solitude, the beauty, the peacefulness that is my Dad’s cabin. I can see why he loved it so much out there.
It is a different way of life to be sure. After spending four days out there, adjusting to no time restraints and no draws of civilization, coming back to town is a shock in some ways. I can only imagine how much so it was for my Dad. Each time I’m out there it gets harder to leave and come back to town.
But a hot shower sure is nice!!

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You get exactly why I feel the way I do about! It was hard for me to be there without him. Memories of his ability to laugh at the ridiculousness of hard situations was evident when Uncle Ray tossed his ashes in the air and, even ‘tho there wasn’t much of a breeze, back “in your face” was the result! Missing him…
I believe your dad had it right. I liked being out at his cabin. Since I am not much on crowds and people, that life sounds pretty good. Your dad was a lucky guy.
Very nice cabin. Would be tough living up there in te winter tho
It’s actually easier to get in and out of the cabin in the winter, and that’s when most of the “neighbors” frequent out there, besides no electricity and the lack of light, winter is the preferred season for most Ellen. 🙂
What a beautiful cabin!
What a gorgeous place! The kids enjoyed seeing the pic of the cabin! Thanks for sharing. I hope that you get to spend as much time as you want out there!