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…it was a bit unorthodox, but it works for us!
Since the kids are still quite young we had some fun making a Pesach tablecloth telling the story of the 10 plagues. We used some inspiration from Challah Crumbs coloring pages and fabric markers and got to work. I spaced ten circles around an oval, each representing one of the 10 plagues that hit Egypt-recorded in Scripture, encircling the Hebrew word for Pesach on our tablecloth. We don’t use the typical seder plate, so our table-cloth is sort-of our seder setting.

Thing 1 and I did most of the work. I sketched out the rough drawings and she got to work coloring in the motifs. Starting with #1, her specialty (Egyptology) and making her lettering look like it has little highlight bubbles… 🙂 She is proud of her little signature marks and she is quite creative (and knowledgeable about Egypt’s history).pesach2015

Thing 2 and Lil’ Bit preferred to play outside, they didn’t realize all of the fun we two were having… until they came in, and great wailing and gnashing of teeth came to pass when they discovered only two motifs remained! *gasp*

Once we finished our art work we heat set the cloth. We’ll add a few finishing touches with some white puffy paint so our table-cloth will be textured. Then some hemming of the two ends. Another project for another day is making some matching napkins and matzah covers.

pesach2015.2We enjoyed various modern Passover songs, including the best ever… Bohemian Rhapsody parody. You should watch it. Our meal was a seasoned, seared beef roast, sweet potatoes, Brussels sprouts & matzah w/karpas and charoset of course. And wine. White Merlot is yummy! And of course, it was enough!

Much to Thing 2’s dismay, Thing 1 discovered the afikomen and was awarded a cash prize. With a lesson about grace and mercy, Thing 2 and Lil’ Bit were rewarded with small gifts of their own. Teaching moments… once a homeschooler, always a homeschooler.

We have a few new recipes to try this year for our week of Unleavened Bread but are already looking forward to next year and our cool tablecloth. ❤

A lot can happen in a single decade. Things you never even dream about. Life can really morph in ten years.

Mine certainly has.

Emma R. Wadkins

Emma R. Wadkins May 27, 1926~January 29, 2005

When I look back and ponder how death affects family dynamics, sometimes I laugh, and others, I cry. My Grandmother was the type that could really pull things together, or throw a huge monkey wrench into the works, if she wanted to. She was full of vim and vinegar and I loved her dearly.

When your family Matriarch passes on, and the reality hits you that you are now standing in the place that your Mother once occupied… and she in turn is now the “Great” Grandma and Matriarch of the family… your mortality hits you squarely between the eyes. Holy Smoke’ms comes to mind!

I remember my ancient Great-Grandmother W, the lines on her face, her slight frame, yet it seems there was something feisty inside. I don’t remember my Great-Grandmother B, there are only photos of her in my mind and stories. My Grandmother has only held one of my children, her Great-Grands. My children do not have memories of their GG-ma, only Thing 1 and these are limited, bolstered by my stories to her and photos. My sister’s children have those precious memories, I hope that they value them, for they are indeed precious.

Ah, but enough of the sappy stuff….

My Grandma was a lot of fun. She was talented and opinionated. She was dedicated. She was handy with a gun and a hammer. She believed in doing a job well. She was a good cook when she wanted to be. She was meticulous in her crafts. Her sewing and leather work were simply amazing, as was her handwriting.

Grandma taught me a lot of things, some by proverb and some by example. Mostly she taught me a lot about family, what to do and what not to do. I miss her and I wonder how different life would be if she were still here? Yet I don’t wish her back. Each of us has a time, a season for everything under heaven. I am thankful for our time together.
Love you Grandma.

The death of Robin Williams  this August highlighted the impact suicide has on us as a society, as people, as family members, and as individuals. Suicide affects us all. It also brought with it bittersweet memories of the losses my family has experienced over the years.

Suicide doesn’t just silence the life of the one who died, it touches all of those left who loved that person. Too many times have I felt that icy, empty touch. It never leaves you. Missing a couple of very special people today…

These were my words the day after Williams died. Those two people were my step-brother Mike and my former father-in-law Kenny. My siblings also lost their own father to suicide (Mike’s Dad too) and I know that he was in their thoughts that day as well. Mike left two boys along with the rest of us, grieving, wondering why… how…what if… if only we could turn back time.

Today is the 8th anniversary of Mikey’s death. He was always our favorite. The one who enjoyed making others laugh. He was cute and the girls loved him. He loved horses. He was creative, he could draw, paint, write poetry. I always loved the summers Mikey spent with us because he brought so much fun into our home. I remember the sleepovers with my friends when Mike was home, oh did we have fun. We all remember the time he danced his “Swan Lake” in our living room, wearing my Mom’s exercise unitard… oh we laughed until we cried. Or nights we watched horror movies and Michael went outside to make noises and scare us out of our wits! He had personality. And a lot of friends. This smiling face is what I remember when I think of Michael Wayne… and laughter and love.

Mike with his Mom, Kay.

Mike with his Mom, Kay. Photo source: Facebook

 

The memes about suicide were flooding my feed on Facebook for a solid week after William’s death, but the one that I remember was this simple photo.

Photo credit tumblr.

Photo credit tumblr.

 

Cletus is my nickname for my sister, and her’s for me (one of them anyway). Yeah, we both call each other Cletus. It stems from our favorite scene from our favorite movie to watch together (well, outside of anything that Johnny Depp stars in) The Nutty Professor.

We can sit and watch that movie over and over and recite the lines together, it’s quite amusing… usually with Moscato in the equation. 😉

Today is Cletus’ birthday. Her second one away from me. She is missing from me.

I miss all of my family and having their smiling faces around of course! 

So I sit here, thinking about all of our fun times and wishing her the bestest birthday ever! ❤ Hoping that one of these days we’ll get to sit down together and watch The Nutty Professor again… and laugh at our own silliness. While drinking some Moscato of course!

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I first saw the auroras as a kid in Kansas, yes, in Kansas! I remember watching the dancing ribbons above the Sherwin Williams plant on Lewark St. Must have been an X class flare that week! I’ve waiting a very long time to see them again. And have been trying since April of last year!

Two nights back my friend Barbra sent me an aurora alert text! So I hopped up and tossed on some clothes and jacket (it’s beginning to get a little chilly at night) and shoes, and out I went. She said they were pretty faint so I had to let my eyes adjust to the light. Then I saw them. They were a pale green streak just above the trees with a few ribbons dancing above. Oh how long I have waited… My heart swelled. ❤

I enjoyed my moment with the dancing souls and then decided to wake up Thing 1. She has really wanted to see them, almost as bad as I have! I got her up and we went out in the cold night together. The stars were amazing. The Big Dipper dominates our night sky here you know, but the Milky Way was making a statement and was quite amazing! She had a hard time making the green hue out (having never seen them before) due mostly to their changing shape and hue and the faint glow of Anchorage’s city lights. We snuggled up on the bumper of our rig and watched. Pretty soon you could see these spires sticking up like beacons shining out into the Universe. She finally saw them! It was one of those special moments, you know, when you witness your child learning/discovering something brand new. The wonder in her voice. My heart swelled. ❤

We enjoyed our midnight moment. It was a good reminder to enjoy more little moments like this in the future. ❤

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memorial.dayCelebrating the Fourth of July, or Independence Day as it should be called, has always been a part of our family’s traditions. When we were kids we would usually go to one side of the family or the other for a cook-out/picnic and fireworks display after it turned dark enough. Going to Grandma’s house was always fun, she made her famous potato salad, always the same every year, and ate her’s warm. We would spread a large beach towel out on the picnic table for a table-cloth and sit around the table for a family meal.  Grandma was quite the patriotic American. Old Glory would be flying, she would often be dressed in something red, white and blue. She’s the one who instilled in me the love for our Nation’s Flag.

I remember the nasty sparklers that always burned our hands or worse, our feet, yet we still wanted to have them and write our names in the dark. We had to have our “lady finger” firecrackers and smoke balls. Grandma always loved a good fountain display. Us kids always wanted the vibrant and loud. Our poor neighbors.

Over the course of my lifetime I’ve seen so many changes in the people of these great United States. Everyone likes to complain about our government, it does too little, does too much, does the wrong thing, yada yada yada. But is it really the government who is to blame? What about the people who put (and continue to put) these same types into power? The people are really the ones to bear the blame. Be the change you want to see. Make a difference.

It seems to me that people no longer understand what liberty is. What true freedom looks like. Honestly, I’m not sure I really understand as all I have ever known has been this pseudo liberty/freedom that we currently have, ever eroding. I think that living here in Alaska gives me a better idea of individual liberty and freedom, and the responsibility that comes with that. You have to make your own way, and sometimes that means paying for it yourself and doing it yourself. Not having something handed to you. We as 21st century Americans like to have things handed to us.

I would like to challenge you today. Have you ever read the Declaration of Independence? It’s about 5 pages in total, with the signatures, only 3 or so pages of actual text, shouldn’t take you too long. I’d like you to read it, together as a family would be best. But let us take a few moments to remember what this “holiday” is really about. 56 men stood up to an unfair system. They pledged all that they had, risked their lives, their families and their holdings.  They weren’t perfect, none of us are. But they had a dream for better place to live, a better way to live and a better way to be governed. We have strayed a long way from those principles.

The unanimous Declaration of the thirteen united States of America,
When in the Course of human events, it becomes necessary for one people to dissolve the
political bands which have connected them with another, and to assume among the powers of the
earth, the separate and equal station to which the Laws of Nature and of Nature’s God entitle
them, a decent respect to the opinions of mankind requires that they should declare the causes
which impel them to the separation.
We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by
their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit
of Happiness.— That to secure these rights, Governments are instituted among Men, deriving
their just powers from the consent of the governed,— That whenever any Form of Government
becomes destructive of these ends, it is the Right of the People to alter or to abolish it, and to
institute new Government, laying its foundation on such principles and organizing its powers in
such form, as to them shall seem most likely to effect their Safety and Happiness…

 

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Dreams, sometimes they mean something, sometimes they don’t.
Sometimes the message is personal, sometimes it has a broader application.
I had a dream about Dad last night.
First one in a long time, actually, I can’t remember the last time I had a dream about him since he passed.
This one wasn’t about past memories. It was about current time.
He was beautiful to see, tall and healthy.
Visiting with friends.
Happy.
Gave me a big hug.
There were no tears, only smiles.
He was getting ready to tell me something, and I woke up.
I wish I hadn’t…

At the Kenai River Festival the kids all participated in a drawing for an iPad mini. They had to take their passport to education and visit at least 12 booths, having each booth validate their passport. Then at the end of the day we turned in the passports for a drawing for the iPad. The tub they were placing them into was stuffed full and this was the second day with another day to go. Thing 1 was super excited about the possibility of winning the iPad, she’s been asking for one for months now. I gave her the “be realistic dear” talk, trying to help her understand the odds were not in her favor to win.

Ha. Guess I should have saved my breath.

The little stinker won!

When I got the call from the Kenai Watershed Forum I said “No way!!” With over 1000 entries! I think I was excited as I knew she would soon be. We went before he city council meeting that night to have it presented to her. She got to have her picture taken with the Mayor and city council members along with a radio interview!

City Council Meeting Photo courtesy of the Kenai Watershed Forum

City Council Meeting
Photo courtesy of the Kenai Watershed Forum

My baby was on the radio, she’s famous! 😉 She did such a good job on the interview, I am so proud of her!

Being interviewed by the famous Katie Quinn for the local radio station.

Being interviewed by the famous Katie Quinn for the local radio station.

What a blessing! That little device really has made life easier for us. With a mifi connection and the iPad the kids can Skype again and each of them have some fun and educational games to play for reward time.

 

 

Big Girl’s Birthday

Thing 1 had her birthday earlier this month. For a special treat we went out to eat and she got to pick the location. And she got some super fun stuff for her birthday: a fashion design set and a portable CD player (with download capabilities…). Her Dad sent her a $20 gift card and she was able to pick up a new outfit (a bright pink and white striped dress with leggings), a new pair of flip-flops, a matching bow, socks, colored pencils, a sketch pad and a new purple water bottle. She is quite the shopper! She also got to pick out some really cool sticker play-sets that the babysitter got her. What fun!

Here’s the Big Girl doing some of her fashion design….

My little fashion designer!

My little fashion designer!

Yesterday she got a surprise package from Grammy & Papa will lots of fun hair things and girly stuff which made her day. She’s been feeling a bit forgotten on her birthday this year so she’s finding out that sometimes good things come to those who wait!

Here’s one of her fashion designs:

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Little Bit’s Birthday

We spent several hours roaming about the Kenai River Festival for something special for her birthday. She had a blast making all sorts of crafts.

Here’s her salmon that she painted. Aunt Claire will love the hot pink color that she picked out!

Hot Pink Salmon

Hot Pink Salmon

 

Here’s the birthday girl with her haul from the festival:

Little Bit and a bag full of goodies!

Little Bit and a bag full of goodies!

She’s also wearing her new outfit she picked out and the matching hair bows and glittery flip-flops she purchased with her $20 gift card from her Dad along with a Hello Kitty coloring book and crayons. She’s a pretty good little bargain hunter too!

She managed to get some pretty cool birthday presents a junior fashion designer set (so she can be just like big sis!) and some new Hello Kitty socks. She also got a Hello Kitty Lego set from the babysitter! What a score!

Plus yesterday she got a surprise package from Grammy & Papa with all sorts of fun little girl things in it for her birthday. She was thrilled!